It’s scientifically proven that monks generally enjoy a higher state of mental well-being than us laity, despite having forgone sex, relationships, and having a lot less to do (even the busiest monks generally do three things: hang out at their temple centre, or teach Dharma through academics or activism, or develop Dharma courses). Now I don’t advocate becoming a monk. In fact, I believe a supporter of the Dharma can often do more as a laity than as a monk. This has been exemplified in legitimate Buddhist movements, where the survival of Buddhist institutions comes from worldly support by laypeople (including businessmen and kings). According to Buddhism, your salvation is not salvation if it depends on being part of an elite minority.
Nevertheless, according to Men’s Health:
Brain scans of Buddhist monks found they’re happier than the average fella – and that’s without sex. So what’s their secret?
Quieten down: Meditation stimulates activity in the brain lobes associated with feel-good emotions.
“Taking 10 minutes each day to sit and close your eyes, away from any distractions, helps relieve stress and create a more positive outlook,” according to Professor Owen Flanagan of the University of Wisconsin in the US.
Chew on it: The meditative magi chew their food slowly and think of the effort that went into producing it, where it’s going and what it’s for, even if it’s a doner kebab.
“Extra chewing breaks down food so there’s less work for your gut. You’ll suffer fewer digestive problems and extract more nutrients from food,” explains Amanda Ursell, Men’s Health Nutrition Editor.
Get dirty: “Growing your own food is a great form of exercise,” advises Stephen Bachelor from Sharpham College for Buddhist studies in Dorset in the UK.
“If you don’t have a garden, however, try a 10-minute stretch outside – in the park or street – every morning to feel the benefits of fresh air.”
Is this hard? Most certainly. I agree completely.



Thanks for the tips. I will try to incorporate them into my daily life.
I agree, that we in the laity, can often have a broader impact.
Great tips on how to achieve increased wellness.
Thanks for the great tips. I have one to add: Choose to be happy, with whatever you’ve got.
About 3 years ago I dropped into a black hole – four months of absolute terror. I wanted to end my life, but somehow [Holy Spirit], I reached out to a friend who took me to hospital. I had three visits [hospital] in four months – I actually thought I was in hell. I imagine I was going through some sort of metamorphosis [mental, physical & spiritual]. I had been seeing a therapist [1994] on a regular basis, up until this point in time. I actually thought I would be locked away – but the hospital staffs were very supportive [I had no control over my process]. I was released from hospital 16th September 1994, but my fear, pain & shame had only subsided a little. I remember this particular morning waking up [home] & my process would start up again [fear, pain, & shame]. No one could help me, not even my therapist [I was terrified]. I asked Jesus Christ to have mercy on me & forgive me my sins. Slowly, all my fear has dissipated & I believe Jesus delivered me from my “psychological prison.” I am a practicing Catholic & the Holy Spirit is my friend & strength; every day since then has been a joy & blessing. I deserve to go to hell for the life I have led, but Jesus through His sacrifice on the cross, delivered me from my inequities. John 3: 8, John 15: 26, are verses I can relate to, organically. He’s a real person who is with me all the time. I have so much joy & peace in my life, today, after a childhood spent in orphanages [England & Australia]. God LOVES me so much. Fear, pain, & shame, are no longer my constant companions. I just wanted to share my experience with you [Luke 8: 16 – 17].
Peace Be With You
Micky